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The Power of Expressive Arts Therapy in Healing Communities
As a facilitator of numerous online expressive art therapy groups, I have witnessed firsthand the transformative impact these sessions...
Mariya Garnet
2 min read


Exploring the Role of Expressive Arts Therapy in Psychedelic Integration: Benefits and Considerations
As someone who has embarked on a journey of self-discovery through both psychedelic medicines and expressive arts therapy, I have...
Mariya Garnet
6 min read


We are wired for spirituality.
There's something emerging in psychology and neuroscience that many of us have felt in our bodies before any research confirmed it: healing involves more than just the mind. It's also spiritual. I don't mean this in a dogmatic way or something that requires belief or ritual. I mean it in the way your body softens when you realize it's part of something bigger than the story of your pain. This is what Dr. Lisa Miller's work explores. Her research puts language and science behi
Mariya Garnet
3 min read


What Is Somatic Therapy — And Can It Actually Work Online?
I meet with many people for whom talk therapy wasn't the problem. They'd done the work. They understood their patterns, sometimes with remarkable clarity — the childhood roots, the coping strategies, the ways they'd learned to manage. And still, something remained unchanged at a level that insight alone couldn't reach. The body had been holding the story the whole time. Somatic therapy begins with a foundational premise that trauma and chronic stress aren't only stored in mem
Mariya Garnet
4 min read


I understand my trauma but nothing has changed — can somatic therapy help?
Somatic therapy can help when insight hasn't, because trauma isn't stored primarily in your thoughts — it lives in your nervous system, and insight alone doesn't change that. If you've spent years understanding your patterns and still feel stuck in them, this is why. Key takeaways Understanding trauma and healing from it are two different neurological processes. One happens in the cortex; the other requires the nervous system. Therapy that stays at the level of narrative and
Mariya Garnet
6 min read


Why do I feel empty even though my life is fine?
There's a specific kind of conversation I have sometimes with clients who have spent years doing everything they were supposed to do — and who still arrive at therapy feeling like they're behind glass.
Mariya Garnet
5 min read


What high-functioning trauma actually is and why it goes undetected
High-functioning trauma hides behind competence, achievement, and a put-together exterior. Here's what it actually is, what it looks like from the inside, and why it so rarely gets recognized.
Mariya Garnet
4 min read


Why high achievers can have trauma
Trauma and high achievement aren't mutually exclusive — in fact, achievement often develops as a trauma response. Here's why, and what it looks like from the inside.
Mariya Garnet
3 min read


How to Stop Feeling Numb
Emotional numbness is not a character flaw. It is a nervous system response, and there are ways to work with it. Here is what actually helps.
Mariya Garnet
4 min read


Why Do I Shut Down in Conflict?
Going quiet during conflict is a nervous system response, not a choice. Here is what is actually happening, where it comes from, and how to work with it.
Mariya Garnet
5 min read


What to Talk About in Therapy When You Feel Nothing
You do not need to feel something to start therapy. When emotions are hard to access, the numbness itself is worth exploring, and the body usually knows where to begin.
Mariya Garnet
5 min read


What to Expect in Your First Somatic Therapy Session
Your first somatic therapy session is mostly a conversation, not an exercise. Here is what actually happens, what your therapist is paying attention to, and how to prepare.
Mariya Garnet
5 min read


Online vs In-Person Therapy for Trauma: What's Worth Knowing
Research shows online therapy is comparably effective to in-person for trauma. Here is what the two formats actually offer, where they differ, and how to choose what works for you.
Mariya Garnet
5 min read


EMDR vs Somatic Therapy: What's the Difference?
EMDR targets specific memories through bilateral stimulation. Somatic therapy works with nervous system patterns in the body. Both help with trauma, but in different ways and for different presentations.
Mariya Garnet
4 min read


Parts Work vs IFS: What's Actually Different
IFS is a specific model with its own certification. Parts work is broader. Both share the core idea that inner conflict is not a flaw but something that developed for a reason and can be worked with.
Mariya Garnet
5 min read


Why Therapy Feels Like It's Not Working
Therapy progress is slow, nonlinear, and often invisible from the inside. Here is what is actually happening, and how to tell the difference between a rough patch and a genuine mismatch.
Mariya Garnet
5 min read


Why do I feel emotionally numb
Emotional numbness is one of the most common presentations in trauma-informed therapy. Here is what it actually is, why it persists, and what body-centered work can do that insight alone cannot.
Mariya Garnet
6 min read


What somatic therapy actually does for nervous system regulation
Somatic therapy is often described in vague terms. Here's what it actually involves, what it does for nervous system regulation specifically, and what changes over time.
Mariya Garnet
5 min read


Nervous system dysregulation and trauma: how early experience shapes the body
Trauma doesn't just affect the mind — it shapes how the nervous system is organized. Understanding the link between early experience and nervous system dysregulation is key to knowing what regulation actually requires.
Mariya Garnet
4 min read


The difference between nervous system regulation and coping
Coping and nervous system regulation are not the same thing — and confusing them can keep people stuck for years. Here's what distinguishes actual regulation from managed dysregulation.
Mariya Garnet
4 min read
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