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Polyvagal theory explained like a human (and what it means for nervous system regulation)
Polyvagal theory is one of the most useful frameworks for understanding nervous system regulation — and it's usually explained in the most inaccessible way possible. Here's what it actually means.
Mariya Garnet
4 min read


The window of tolerance: what it is and why it matters for nervous system regulation
The window of tolerance is one of the most useful frameworks for understanding nervous system regulation. Here's what it means in plain terms — and why widening it changes everything.
Mariya Garnet
4 min read


Why breathing exercises don't help (and what nervous system regulation actually needs)
If you've tried breathing exercises and they didn't touch your anxiety or dysregulation, you're not doing it wrong. Here's why surface-level tools often can't reach deep nervous system dysregulation.
Mariya Garnet
4 min read


Why you shut down when you're overwhelmed (it's a nervous system response)
Freezing, going blank, losing words, feeling suddenly flat — these are nervous system regulation responses, not character flaws. Here's what's happening and why it makes sense.
Mariya Garnet
4 min read


Why you're always on edge even when nothing is wrong
Chronic hypervigilance — that feeling of always waiting for something to go wrong — is a nervous system regulation problem, not an anxiety personality. Here's what's actually happening.
Mariya Garnet
4 min read


Why you can't just calm down (and what nervous system regulation actually requires)
Being told to just calm down when you're dysregulated doesn't work — and there's a real physiological reason why. Here's what nervous system regulation actually involves.
Mariya Garnet
4 min read


What nervous system dysregulation actually feels like
Nervous system dysregulation doesn't always look like a panic attack. Here's what it actually feels like in the body — and why nervous system regulation is the missing piece for so many people.
Mariya Garnet
4 min read


Somatic therapy for childhood emotional neglect — why CEN requires a different approach
CEN is a wound of absence, not event. There's no story to process — only a state the body learned to live in. Here's why somatic work is especially suited to healing it.
Mariya Garnet
4 min read


What actually happens in a somatic therapy session for complex trauma
Somatic sessions move slowly, track what the body does rather than just what you say, and build capacity over time. Here's what the pace, the process, and early change actually feel like.
Mariya Garnet
4 min read


When somatic therapy is especially critical — not just helpful
There are specific signals that somatic work isn't just one option among many but the only approach that will reach what someone is carrying. Here's what those signals actually look like.
Mariya Garnet
4 min read


Online somatic therapy in Ontario — how it works and what to actually expect
Online somatic therapy translates fully to video — and for some people, being in their own space makes the work easier. Here's what sessions actually look like and what's different about working online.
Mariya Garnet
3 min read


If you need a somatic therapist in Ontario for childhood trauma — what to actually look for
Credentials matter less than presence. Here's what to look for, what to ask on a consultation call, and how to know whether a therapist is actually a good fit for complex trauma work.
Mariya Garnet
3 min read


Body-based alternatives to talk therapy for childhood emotional neglect
CEN often doesn't have memories to process — it's a state stored in the body. NARM and Expressive Arts Therapy work with states rather than stories, which is why they reach what talk therapy can't.
Mariya Garnet
4 min read


Somatic therapy vs talk therapy — what actually works better for complex trauma recovery
The answer isn't either/or. Here's how somatic and talk approaches work differently, why complex trauma specifically needs body-based work, and how they integrate in practice.
Mariya Garnet
3 min read


Why talk therapy alone often isn't enough for complex trauma
Most clients I work with have done years of talk therapy and still feel stuck. Here's why insight doesn't automatically produce change — and what the body adds.
Mariya Garnet
3 min read


What somatic therapy actually is — and why it reaches complex trauma differently than talk therapy
Somatic therapy works from the body inward — tracking sensation, breath, and nervous system response rather than narrative. Here's what it actually involves and why it matters for complex trauma.
Mariya Garnet
4 min read


How to find a psychedelic integration therapist
Finding a therapist who's genuinely equipped for integration work is harder than finding one who's open to it. Here's what to look for, what to ask, and what raises concerns.
Mariya Garnet
3 min read


Legal psychedelic therapy in Canada — what's actually available in 2026
Ketamine, Special Access Program, integration therapy — here's what's actually available in Canada for legal psychedelic treatment, and what remains inaccessible.
Mariya Garnet
3 min read


Microdosing and mental health — what the research actually says
Microdosing reports are enthusiastic, but controlled research tells a more complicated story. Here's what's been established about microdosing and mental health — without overstating it.
Mariya Garnet
2 min read


Psychedelics and trauma — what the research actually shows
MDMA-assisted therapy for PTSD has strong trial evidence. Psilocybin research is promising. Here's an honest look at what the evidence says and doesn't say about psychedelics and trauma treatment.
Mariya Garnet
3 min read
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